Ask the sleep expert – when would you recommend moving my baby into her own room?


What is the earliest you would recommend moving my baby into her own room?

Essentially the choice is yours as the parent of your new baby. However, the guidelines in most countries regarding safe sleep for infants and prevention of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) recommend that your baby sleep in your room for six months or longer.

Some parents prefer their baby to be in a separate room from the day they come home from hospital; others choose to co-sleep for a period of time and then move their child, but the majority of parents tend to sleep their babies in a cot or crib near their bed for at least the first six months. Of course, this is an individual choice, and the main considerations are safety and prevention of SIDS and – especially if breastfeeding – there will be easier night feeds if your baby is in your room.

Wherever your baby sleeps, it must be safe, so when considering transitioning your baby to his or her own room you will need to:

  • Make sure your baby’s cot or crib has a firm, well fitting mattress.
  • Check that the temperature of the room can be regulated to ensure your baby is comfortable all night long, but definitely not too hot.
  • Ensure that the curtains or blinds allow for the room to be very dark all night.
  • Invest in a monitor so that you can hear if your baby needs you in the night.
  • Always lay your baby down to sleep on his or her back.
  • Remove bumpers and toys from the cot (however a small, safe ‘lovey’ or soft toy used for comfort is fine).
  • Dress your baby in an all-in-one sleep suit or sleeping bag, which is more comfortable and safer than loose blankets.

If your baby has been sleeping in your room for some time, make the transition a little easier for them by starting off with daytime naps in his or her new room. Change nappies in there, and generally get him or her used to the new sleep environment for a few days before transitioning for night time sleep.

You may find that you miss your baby being in your room and are concerned you will not hear if they need you in the night, but as long as you adhere to safe sleep principles, your baby is settling well in the new room and you have your monitor on then you will gradually be less concerned by the physical distance and be able to sleep more peacefully yourself.

It tends to be that the later you leave the transition beyond six months, the longer it can be for your baby to adjust, however in most situations that I see as a Sleep Consultant, it is usually not as difficult as a parent may expect!

Sleep well, mama!

If you need any further advice please email me.


  1. Tracie says:

    Some really useful tips…Thankyou 🙂

  2. Thanks for your comment, hope it helps with you baby!

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